The Truth About Anal Sex
The Truth About Anal Sex
In today’s hypersexualized society, anal intercourse has somehow managed to remain a taboo topic. How’s that for irony?
Anal sex isn’t exactly the thing you talk about over brunch, or ever, really. It’s one of those quiet as kept secrets you like to keep confined to your bedroom. Because seriously, how DO you casually mention butt sex to your friends? Awkward.Here’s a newsflash for you: refusing to broach the subject doesn’t mean it’s any less of a reality.
Learn the truth about anal sex
In fact, sometimes your silence can actually cause ignorance, and the inability to recognize when you, or they have the facts all wrong. So cheer up, we’re going to give you the truth about anal sex that you were always wanted to ask and couldn’ t find whom to ask!
Yeah, it hurts but you will love it!
If you’re thinking of going full steam ahead, think again. Anal sex is something you actually have to ease into. Go slowly, ever so slowly, at first. You can build up the speed as you get more into it.
Lube is an absolute must
Well duh! If you want to make the experience even remotely satisfying, you have to go in properly lubricated. It’s the only safe way in. Lube for him and lube for you. Lube for everyone!
It’s not dirty
As clinical sexologist Dr. Kat Van Kirk says, the anus and the lower part of the rectum actually have very little fecal material in them, which means it tends to not be nearly as dirty as you think.
Practice makes you perfect
Yes, you need to practice at home first. In the bathroom when you have a hot bath in the tub is a good place to start practicing and exploring your anus with your fingertips by inserting one finger. Some anal toys can help you relax your inner muscles and learn how it feels.
Size matters
Let’s just say, if you’re trying to squeeze a watermelon through a needle, it hurts more than trying to push a piece of thread through said needle.It’s that one time you’ll be happy your man’s cock isn’t as large as you’d like. Yes to positive thinking!
It helps to shave your ass
Shaving and cleaning your ass will help you make it slippery when lube is applied. Insertion is made easy and as a matter of fact anal sex is not dirty unless you make it!
His penis should NOT enter your vagina right after
THIS is very important. The anus is filled with bacteria that can be transferred to the vagina if he chooses to stick it in right after exiting your back door. This can cause painful vaginal and urinary tract infections. Who wants that trouble? No one!
You need to relax
Breath in, and breath out. The more relaxed your body is, the easier entry will be. Again, breath in, breath out. It’s scary, we know. But if you put more focus on the impending pain, it’ll make the entire experience even less enjoyable.
It’s super intense
As you’ve got to go through SO much prep’, the reality is that you’re gonna feel a hell of a lot more turned on when you do finally come down to it. See, s’not all bad.
There’s a possibility poop will make an appearance, so you can clean up your ass with an enema
Oh, poop! There’s just no escaping you, is there? Yes, there is a possibility that poop will find its way onto his penis. See why that condom is so important? If you’d like to lessen the likelihood of that happening, you could take an enema beforehand. Sexy isn’ t it?)
Enemas are safe and healthy and can make you lose wight also. You can see more about enemas.
There’s also a chance you’ll fart out his ‘goods’
If you have ignored all our previous advice and gone in sans condom anyway, babe, his junk’s got to come out somehow. Trust us, the moment you realize his cum is trickling outta your butt is one you’ll certainly remember…
It can be pretty intimate
What requires more trust in a relationship than letting your partner stuff his junk up your butt? If this is something you both want to try, and take the time and care to build yourselves up to (AKA massages and butt plugs), it can take on a really intimate vibe.
You could have an amazing anal Orgasm
Well… you might. You might not. It’s a risk you’ve got to take. Many women have experienced anal orgasms before and even a squirting anal orgasm. See more about how to squirt.
You might love it or you might hate it
At this point you might be wondering what all is trouble is really for. And the truth is, anal sex isn’t a sport everyone will enjoy playing. Some women get turned on during anal intercourse and love it, while others cringe at the thought before, during and after.
If you’re not a fan, at least you can say you gave it a shot and can speak from experience. You’ve got to love a gal that can speak from experience, right?
Try it before he try it with someone else
Always there is a chance to try it with another woman, man or escort! So be the first to indulge him to the pleasures of the back door!
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